George Edward Enefer

1945 - 2008
LocationEssex
Age62 years
Date of Birth20/06/1945
Date of Death27/02/2008
Visitors1,140 since 22/03/2008
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George ,my husband, lover, soulmate, born 20th June 1945 and passed away 27th February 2008.
You left us in peace, you fought and struggled for seven years against Mr.C -- after 39 yeas of marriage, how i wish we could have had our 40th.
You have left your legacy, son and daughter and eight wonderful grandchildren all who miss you so much. Like i do.
Sleep peacefully my love -- you are always here in our hearts.

Below is my tribute to you which was read out at your service -- everyone thought is was so true of you -- i hope you liked it too.


My George

Husband – Father – Grandfather – Brother, and friend to one and all

The brother with four elder sisters– chasing one with worms – because he knew she hated them – wrecking another’s bike after he had wrecked his own careering down Poultry Farm hill and going head first over the Stuarts hedge.

The boyfriend who in 1967 on our third date told me he was going to marry me – told me - you notice, not asked me.

The joker who took great delight in telling how my father shook his hand and then said very solemnly- β€œSon you have my deepest sympathy and thank you for taking her off me hands” when we became engaged.

The son in law who was the apple of my mother and my father’s eye –and would do anything that was asked of him by either of them.

The father whose pride and joy were first his son – to carry on the family name and then his daughter – daddy’s little girl – who as they grew up and became parents themselves gave him so much pride and pleasure.

The grandfather who walked the floor for three months when Claire’s eldest suffered colic every night singing lullabies to calm her and whom , whenever there was a babysitter needed always was the first called and the first there – and who was so proud to have eight wonderful grandchildren..

The brother in law who surprised Ben and Denise on their Silver Wedding by driving all night to the Lake District just so that we could arrive with a champagne breakfast for them..

The Gardener who grew so many vegetables he kept all the family and most of the neighbours in fresh produce throughout the year and until last year still mowed lawns and cut hedges for all of them.

The husband who over the years stood by my side through thick and thin- whatever struggles we were going through – and there were many, and with whom the affinity between us was so strong that one invariably started to speak about something the other was about to say or had been thinking.

And the husband who fought his illness every step of the way and became part of an elite group who survived for more than two years – in fact it was nearly seven. And who also made sure that when his time had come that I was not alone and that our daughter was there that night.

This was the man
This was my husband
This was my George



Please note to all who may feel they wish to post on here -- my husband was not a religious man, and had a Humanist funeral, so i would appreciate should you wish to light a candle etc that you bear this in mind
thankyou

Gifts

Tributes

To Those Whom I Love
And Those Who Love Me
Mary Alice Ramish
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years

I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I thankyou for the love each have shown
But now it is time I travelled on alone

So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memories in your heart

I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you cannot see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear

Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and welcome home

xxxx Remembering you today GG

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

February 27, 2011

♥ New Year’s Eve ♥

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It’s New Years Eve
The clock strikes twelve
The church bells ring

As another New Year begins
We are hoping for better things
The one thing we want more than anything
Is to have you here with us

But that remains a dream

Dreams of the past
Are all that remain
When we were all together
Celebrating with joy in our heart
And days full of smiles and laughter

Now they are dreams of the past

No matter what
The New Year will begin
Our hearts are filled with sorrow and pain
Our tears will fall from our eyes like rain

We just want the dreams of the past

All we want in this New Year
Is to feel you ever near
Your smile
Your love
Your presence
Your touch
Those are the things we want so much

Another year begins
And all we have
Are dreams of the past
With hope for a better year

Copyright LuLu

xxx

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

December 31, 2010

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Although, sweet angel, for your loved ones Christmas will never be the same without you, your smiling face,
It helps them very much to know that you are happy, loved, at peace and in a much better place.

β˜… β—¦Λšβ—¦ β˜†Enjoy your Heavenly Christmasβ˜… β—¦Λšβ—¦ β˜† May your be surrounded by love, peace and happiness always.

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

December 25, 2010

Thinking of you

You may not be able to see me,
Though you think that I am gone.
Inside your heart you carry me,
So I live on, I live on.

I know you feel an emptiness,
Of words we left unsaid.
Release your pain, forgive yourself,
For I already did.

The love you gave, I took with me,
And left my love for you.
So now I know some time has passed,
Here is what I ask of you.

Share my life and remember me,
To those you love – out loud.
And I will become part of them,
For that would make me proud.

Those little quirks, the quips I said,
Please share those memories.
For there is no plaque or stone,
That would better honor me.

I loved you then, and love you still,
And will forevermore.
So take my love and pass it down,
That’s what my legacy is for.

Give my memories, my love as gifts,
And do not mourn that I have gone.
Just place my love in your Heart always
And you will know that I live on.

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

June 20, 2010

For your Birthday

Today it is your Birthday
And Father's day as well
We lost you in pain and misery
But no pain, just peace, where you now dwell


Today we will miss you just like the days before.
Today we will love just a lot more
Today we will cry yet once again,
Today we will remember you and go down memory lane

Marion , your wife , missing you as always
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Marion Enefer (Wife)

June 20, 2010

Your angel day

To the living, I am gone,
To the sorrowful, I will never return,
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy, I am at peace,
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea--
As you look upon a flower and admire it's simplicity--
Remember Me.
Remember me in your heart.
Your thoughts, and your memories,
Of the times we loved,
The times we cried,
The times we fought,
The times we laughed.
For if you always think of me,
I will never have gone.
Thinking of you today GG
XX

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

February 27, 2010

Is it really 2 years

I remember everything about you,
your voice, you smile,
your touch,
the way you walked,
the way you talked,
the way you looked at me,
it meant so much.

I remember all the words you said to me,
some funny,
some kind,
some wise,
all of the things you did for me,
I see now with different eyes.

I remember every moment we shared,
seems like only yesterday,
or maybe it was ages ago,
It's really hard to say.

You are gone from me now,
but one thing they can't take away,
your memory resides inside my heart,
and lights up my darkest days...
Anonymous

This really says it all my love
Marion xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Missing you as always

Marion Enefer (Wife)

February 26, 2010

Happy New Year XX
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Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

January 1, 2010

IN THE SILENCE....
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IN THE SILENCE WE HEAR THE HANDS OF THE CLOCK TICKING
KNOWING THAT IT WILL SOON BE CHRISTMAS DAY
WE ALWAYS WANT TO SHARE IT WITH OUR ANGELS IN OUR OWN WAY
A DAY THAT WE HAVE TO WEAR A SMILE UPON OUR FACE
WHEN ALL WE REALLY WANT TO DO IS HOLD YOU IN OUR EMBRACE

THE DAY SEEMS TO PASS AND WE TRY THE BEST THAT WE CAN DO
WHILE WE TRY SO HARD TO SMILE WE A REALLY THINKING OF YOU
WISHING THAT YOU WERE HERE TO SHARE IN THE FESTIVIES THIS YEAR
JUST LIKE YOU USED TO WHEN YOU WERE STILL HERE

KNOWING THAT YOU ARE SPENDING CHRISTMAS WITH THE ANGELS JUST DOES NOT SEEM RIGHT
WE KNOW ON CHRISTMAS EVE YOU WILL BE SHOWING YOUR GOLDEN LIGHT
SO THAT WE CAN LOOK INTO THE SKIES AND THAT WE CAN SEE
THEN WE CAN MAKE IT THOUGH THE NIGHT
THE SADDNESS WE FEEL IN OUR HEARTS WILL NOT EVER GO AWAY
WE WISH THAT YOU WERE HERE NOT IN HEAVEN ON CHRISTMAS DAY......
copyrightοΏ½ Rosalind Roberts 22/12/09

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

December 25, 2009

β˜…MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGELβ˜…
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xxxxxx

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

December 20, 2009
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