George Edward Enefer

1945 - 2008
LocationEssex
Age62 years
Date of Birth20/06/1945
Date of Death27/02/2008
Visitors789 since 22/03/2008
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George ,my husband, lover, soulmate, born 20th June 1945 and passed away 27th February 2008.
You left us in peace, you fought and struggled for seven years against Mr.C -- after 39 yeas of
marriage, how i wish we could have had our 40th.
You have left your legacy, son and daughter and eight wonderful grandchildren all who miss you so
much. Like i do.
Sleep peacefully my love -- you are always here in our hearts.

Below is my tribute to you which was read out at your service -- everyone thought is was so true of
you -- i hope you liked it too.


My George

Husband – Father – Grandfather – Brother, and friend to one and all

The brother with four elder sisters– chasing one with worms – because he knew she hated them –
wrecking another’s bike after he had wrecked his own careering down Poultry Farm hill and going
head first over the Stuarts hedge.

The boyfriend who in 1967 on our third date told me he was going to marry me – told me - you
notice, not asked me.

The joker who took great delight in telling how my father shook his hand and then said very
solemnly- “Son you have my deepest sympathy and thank you for taking her off me hands” when we
became engaged.

The son in law who was the apple of my mother and my father’s eye –and would do anything that
was asked of him by either of them.

The father whose pride and joy were first his son – to carry on the family name and then his
daughter – daddy’s little girl – who as they grew up and became parents themselves gave him so
much pride and pleasure.

The grandfather who walked the floor for three months when Claire’s eldest suffered colic every
night singing lullabies to calm her and whom , whenever there was a babysitter needed always was the
first called and the first there – and who was so proud to have eight wonderful grandchildren..

The brother in law who surprised Ben and Denise on their Silver Wedding by driving all night to the
Lake District just so that we could arrive with a champagne breakfast for them..

The Gardener who grew so many vegetables he kept all the family and most of the neighbours in fresh
produce throughout the year and until last year still mowed lawns and cut hedges for all of them.

The husband who over the years stood by my side through thick and thin- whatever struggles we were
going through – and there were many, and with whom the affinity between us was so strong that one
invariably started to speak about something the other was about to say or had been thinking.

And the husband who fought his illness every step of the way and became part of an elite group who
survived for more than two years – in fact it was nearly seven. And who also made sure that when
his time had come that I was not alone and that our daughter was there that night.

This was the man
This was my husband
This was my George



Please note to all who may feel they wish to post on here -- my husband was not a religious man, and
had a Humanist funeral, so i would appreciate should you wish to light a candle etc that you bear
this in mind
thankyou


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Your angel day

To the living, I am gone,
To the sorrowful, I will never return,
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy, I am at peace,
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea--
As you look upon a flower and admire it's simplicity--
Remember Me.
Remember me in your heart.
Your thoughts, and your memories,
Of the times we loved,
The times we cried,
The times we fought,
The times we laughed.
For if you always think of me,
I will never have gone.
Thinking of you today GG
XX

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

3 weeks ago

Is it really 2 years

I remember everything about you,
your voice, you smile,
your touch,
the way you walked,
the way you talked,
the way you looked at me,
it meant so much.

I remember all the words you said to me,
some funny,
some kind,
some wise,
all of the things you did for me,
I see now with different eyes.

I remember every moment we shared,
seems like only yesterday,
or maybe it was ages ago,
It's really hard to say.

You are gone from me now,
but one thing they can't take away,
your memory resides inside my heart,
and lights up my darkest days...
Anonymous

This really says it all my love
Marion xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Missing you as always

Marion Enefer (Wife)

3 weeks ago

Happy New Year XX
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Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

January 1, 2010

IN THE SILENCE....
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.........♥......12.......♥
.....♥.11......'|`.......1.♥
..♥.10.........'|`...........2.♥
(♥.9...........♥............3.♥)
...♥.8.....................4.♥
.......♥.7..............5.♥
..........)♥....6.....♥(
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IN THE SILENCE WE HEAR THE HANDS OF THE CLOCK TICKING
KNOWING THAT IT WILL SOON BE CHRISTMAS DAY
WE ALWAYS WANT TO SHARE IT WITH OUR ANGELS IN OUR OWN WAY
A DAY THAT WE HAVE TO WEAR A SMILE UPON OUR FACE
WHEN ALL WE REALLY WANT TO DO IS HOLD YOU IN OUR EMBRACE

THE DAY SEEMS TO PASS AND WE TRY THE BEST THAT WE CAN DO
WHILE WE TRY SO HARD TO SMILE WE A REALLY THINKING OF YOU
WISHING THAT YOU WERE HERE TO SHARE IN THE FESTIVIES THIS YEAR
JUST LIKE YOU USED TO WHEN YOU WERE STILL HERE

KNOWING THAT YOU ARE SPENDING CHRISTMAS WITH THE ANGELS JUST DOES NOT SEEM RIGHT
WE KNOW ON CHRISTMAS EVE YOU WILL BE SHOWING YOUR GOLDEN LIGHT
SO THAT WE CAN LOOK INTO THE SKIES AND THAT WE CAN SEE
THEN WE CAN MAKE IT THOUGH THE NIGHT
THE SADDNESS WE FEEL IN OUR HEARTS WILL NOT EVER GO AWAY
WE WISH THAT YOU WERE HERE NOT IN HEAVEN ON CHRISTMAS DAY......
copyright� Rosalind Roberts 22/12/09

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

December 25, 2009

★MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGEL★
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xxxxxx

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

December 20, 2009

Another Christmas comes my love
Without you here with me
But I know you watch us from above
And all of us you see

Your Grandchildren grow
In years and number too
How I wish you were here with me
To share them all with you

But that is not to be my love
As you have gone from me
But in no more pain dearest one
Will you ever be

I miss your laugh,
I miss your smile
And even miss your grumps
Once in a while

So Happy Christmas my dearest one
I know you are still with me
Deep in my Heart
Where you will always be


miss you --
Marion
xxxxxx

Marion Enefer (Wife)

December 16, 2009

I Promise ♥

I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
I promise I will remember
How to live and how to play.

I promise that I'll dry my tears
When the heartache goes away.
I promise that it won't take years
But I need another day.

I promise that I'll live my life
As you would want me to.
I promise when I'm facing strife
I'll face it straight and true.

I promise I will endeavour
To do the best I can each day.
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today

Marion Enefer (Wife)

August 23, 2009

Happy Birthday GG,

Are there birthdays up in heaven
does an angel blow his horn
announcing to all the angels
this is the day you were born ♥

♥ Can the stars be your balloons
and angel food your cake
presents wrapped in moonbeams
all the angels helped to make ♥

♥ So I’ll whisper a little prayer today
asking everyone up above
to sing you a happy birthday song
and give you all our love ♥

XXXXX

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

June 20, 2009

EASTER

♥ WITH LOVE AT EASTER. ♥
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════║══║ AN EASTER BLESSING
═╔══╝══╚══╗ FOR A SPECIAL ANGEL.
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XXX

Breidge Mc Aleese (Close Friend)

April 12, 2009

One Year Ago Today

Is it really a year ago
When we said our last farewell
When I wept with sorrow
And grief at my loss
And a silence on our family fell

Is it really a year ago
When I lay you down to rest
You fought so hard for seven years
A brave soul to the end
Always with a smile or jest

Is it really a year ago
When a couple became just one
To be a single soul
In this wide world
A world without the sun

Is it really a year ago
The time has sped so fast
Sleep well my love
In peace
And with no pain at last

Is it really a year ago
When we had to part
You are still here with me
In my thoughts my love
And forever in my heart

Marion xxxxxxxx

Marion Enefer (Wife)

February 27, 2009
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